The Greenhouse at The Beekman Arms

Celebratory Prenups

Stissing House

Wedding Day

North Star at the Alander Hotel

The After Party

Mitchell and Bruce's Home

Closing Ceremonies and Brunch

Our Wedding

Celebratory Pre-nups

Friday, October 16, 2026, 8:30PM - 10:30PMBeekman Arms<a href="https://www.google.com/maps/place/beekman+arms+rhinebeck/data=!4m2!3m1!1s0x89dd0c37d8404f2d:0xda52e7ca6c3289dd?sa=X&amp;ved=1t:242&amp;ictx=111" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">6387 Mill Street, Rhinebeck, NY 12572</a><a href="https://www.google.com/maps/place/beekman+arms+rhinebeck/data=!4m2!3m1!1s0x89dd0c37d8404f2d:0xda52e7ca6c3289dd?sa=X&amp;ved=1t:242&amp;ictx=111" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">(Directions Here)</a>

Join the grooms-to-be for drinks and bites.

Saturday, October 17, 2026, 12:00PM<a href="https://www.google.com/maps/place/Stissing+House/data=!4m2!3m1!1s0x0:0x5dd972f44afb28c6?sa=X&amp;ved=1t:2428&amp;ictx=111" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Stissing House</a><a href="https://www.google.com/maps/place/Stissing+House/data=!4m2!3m1!1s0x0:0x5dd972f44afb28c6?sa=X&amp;ved=1t:2428&amp;ictx=111" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">7801 S Main St, Pine Plains, NY 12567</a><a href="https://www.google.com/maps/place/Stissing+House/data=!4m2!3m1!1s0x0:0x5dd972f44afb28c6?sa=X&amp;ved=1t:2428&amp;ictx=111" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">(Directions Here)</a>

12:00pm - Cocktails With The Grooms1:00pm - Vows1:30-4:00pm - Harvest Lunch

Saturday, October 17, 2026, 8:30-10:30PM<a href="google.com/maps/place/North+Star/data=!4m2!3m1!1s0x0:0xd0ae2a7f79e9544f?sa=X&amp;ved=1t:2428&amp;ictx=111" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">North Star at Alander Hotel</a><a href="google.com/maps/place/North+Star/data=!4m2!3m1!1s0x0:0xd0ae2a7f79e9544f?sa=X&amp;ved=1t:2428&amp;ictx=111" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">7519 RT. 22, Copake, NY</a><a href="google.com/maps/place/North+Star/data=!4m2!3m1!1s0x0:0xd0ae2a7f79e9544f?sa=X&amp;ved=1t:2428&amp;ictx=111" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">(Directions Here)</a>

Join us for light bites and drinks.

Sunday, October 18, 2026, 10:00am - 1:00PM<a href="https://www.google.com/maps/place/183+Sigler+Rd,+Pine+Plains,+NY+12567/@42.0131908,-73.6684757,606m/data=!3m2!1e3!4b1!4m6!3m5!1s0x89dd9d442cec6add:0x9c5307a4938c610b!8m2!3d42.0131908!4d-73.6684757!16s%2Fg%2F11c4khdfbh?entry=ttu&amp;g_ep=EgoyMDI2MDUxMy4wIKXMDSoASAFQAw%3D%3D" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Mitchell and Bruce's home</a><a href="https://www.google.com/maps/place/183+Sigler+Rd,+Pine+Plains,+NY+12567/@42.0131908,-73.6684757,606m/data=!3m2!1e3!4b1!4m6!3m5!1s0x89dd9d442cec6add:0x9c5307a4938c610b!8m2!3d42.0131908!4d-73.6684757!16s%2Fg%2F11c4khdfbh?entry=ttu&amp;g_ep=EgoyMDI2MDUxMy4wIKXMDSoASAFQAw%3D%3D" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">183 Sigler Road, Gallatin, NY</a><a href="https://www.google.com/maps/place/183+Sigler+Rd,+Pine+Plains,+NY+12567/@42.0131908,-73.6684757,606m/data=!3m2!1e3!4b1!4m6!3m5!1s0x89dd9d442cec6add:0x9c5307a4938c610b!8m2!3d42.0131908!4d-73.6684757!16s%2Fg%2F11c4khdfbh?entry=ttu&amp;g_ep=EgoyMDI2MDUxMy4wIKXMDSoASAFQAw%3D%3D" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">(Directions Here)</a>

Weekend & Travel

Our Story

Photos

Wedding Party

Dress Code

Q + A

Travel

In lieu of gifts, we ask our loved ones to consider making a donation in our names. Organizations that are meaningful to us: <a href="https://www.sageusa.org/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">SAGE: Advocacy and Services for LGBTQ Elders</a>Your gift powers SAGE programs that offer care, connection, and advocacy for LGBTQ+ elders everywhere. <a href="https://connect.clickandpledge.com/w/Form/a6320b38-fdb8-4ed3-a014-a3d2e81a988b?638217350437444221" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The LGBT Community Center</a>The Center is the heart and home of NYC's LGBTQ+ community, providing programs for health, wellness, and community connection. <a href="https://support.lambdalegal.org/site/Donation2?mfc_pref=T&amp;df_id=6680&amp;6680.donation=form1&amp;NONCE_TOKEN=D3311163DF16F06EEA5520010BAF90B5&amp;_gl=1*10va4z4*_gcl_au*NDExNjc0Njk3LjE3NzkyODcwNzk.*_ga*MjQxNDgxNDI1LjE3NzkyODcwNzk.*_ga_290ZG8GMP3*czE3NzkyODcwNzkkbzEkZzAkdDE3NzkyODcwNzkkajYwJGwwJGgw" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Lambda Legal</a>Lambda Legal’s lawyers have won precedent-setting civil rights cases on everything from marriage equality to expressions of gender identity to health care discrimination.

Gifts

Read on for: * Restaurants in Rhinebeck* Restaurants in Copake and Millerton we recommend for Saturday evening* Sites to visit if you've got time on Friday or Sunday

Restaurants in Rhinebeck, NY

Cinnamon Indian Cuisine

We recommend eating at the bistro

Terrapin Restaurant

We suggest you make your reservation for Friday&nbsp;night dinner 30 days in advance for around 6:30PM or 7:00PM - it is a popular restaurant and others attending the wedding will be dining there.

Market St. Restaurant

Bread Alone - Rhinebeck

Le Petit Bistro

Gigi Trattoria

Copake and Millerton Restaurants Near our Saturday night after party

Some guests attending The After Party will dine here so we suggest that you make a reservation 30 days in advance for around 7:00PM. If the weather is good, there is a lovely outdoor dining area.

North Star Restaurant at the Alander Hotel

Willa

Millerton Inn

Sites to visit on Friday or Sunday

We suggest you make a reservation in advance since they fill up during peak leaf season.

Wilderstein Historic Site